A Good Way To Deal With A Coworker In A Small Report

"Ancient times, but at that time did not have this name, people generally used to call it" entering slander ".

The so-called "slander" is to speak ill of others.

Of course, there are certain purposes. In order to achieve this ulterior purpose, slander is to be heard to those who can influence the fate of those who are slandered.

Speaking of slanders to those who are of high status, they call it "entering".

But if the leader is a black and white person who is easy to listen to others, the "small report" will pose a threat to the accused.

"People, in order to make their own" small report "play the role of framing people, always study people's psychology.

In their practice of setting up people, they have gradually "groped" to such a rule, that is, in general, people often have deep impression on the first impression. Once formed, they often accumulate as a set of thinking.

If at this time someone told him how Zhang three behaved misbehaved and morally corrupt, then he would not even listen to the man's words. But in his heart of hearts, he had a big question mark about Zhang San's character and showed a bad feeling on his mind.

Because these views conflict with the first impression formed before, so it is very difficult to enter the brain.

This is like a blank sheet of paper. The first stroke is always clear. If you want to draw another picture on the painted paper, then the effort will not be much larger, and the images formed on the original paper will not be completely eliminated.

"People grasp the characteristics of people's thinking and psychology and try their best to make the best of them.

The people who are hurt by the arrow are often disadvantaged because of their lack of precaution. Therefore, most of them are in a disadvantageous position, and some people can not even get the opportunity to defy it.

However, if it is possible for the framed personnel to take measures to actively protect themselves, or to stir up trouble, and to take the initiative to seize the initiative, will the situation be completely changed?

This requires:

"The sinner carried out a blatant debate, and put the objective facts and the" black materials "which were secretly reported, and the various false statements behind them.

Framing others, always trying to catch a handle on the infringed body, and then unlimitely exaggerating, vigorously attacking, this is not only those who like to pick up and alienate, gossip generation, all the evil and evil villains are all so.

If we do things for ourselves, we must be practical and realistic. If we speak honestly and honestly, be honest and honest, be honest and selfless, and be a trustworthy and worthwhile person, then the evil and evil people will not dare to have a sense of indifference. It is also difficult for a slander to seize the handle of "small report" to frame a person, so that it is far from the source of all evil and avoids the occurrence of disasters.