What Psychological Principles Should Female Social Interaction Be Based On?

1. equal tolerance

If a social encounter with authority figures or celebrities, there is no need to rush into the world.

If it is necessary to talk with him, it is necessary to contact naturally, or wait for people to disperse gradually, so that they can be relaxed and comfortable as ordinary people.

If someone, especially a woman, is in

If you are not talking to someone, you should realize that it is his right to stick to the ideas, views and behaviors that he thinks are right, and not to stir up verbal warfare.

If anyone

If someone is polite to you or does not intend to hurt your self-esteem, you don't need to worry about it, let alone laugh it off.

In social interaction, friendship is the first. Since everyone is friends, there is no difference between high and low.

Therefore, respect for each other's personality, friendly and friendly attitude, and a relaxed and relaxed atmosphere are particularly important.

Equality and sincerity, tolerance and magnanimity are always noble virtues.

And pretentious.

Aggressive, acrimonious, or telltale, jealous and suspicious are not only stupid but also loathsome.

2. courtesy to others

Politeness means respect for people.

Being polite to others is a manifestation of civilization, and rude, rude and aggressive people are unpleasant.

As a woman, she has no need to be coy about other people's courtesy and concern, and can accept it naturally and generously.

At the same time, we should also smile and express our gratitude with respect from others, not to be taken for granted.

In the first meeting and farewell, if necessary, women should take the initiative to make a gesture of hand.

If a man extends his hand to you, you should also extend your hand with a smile, instead of being cold and indifferent.

Meeting an acquaintance can not be seen but not seen.

If you are too busy to attend to it, you can gesture with your hand.

Of course, courtesy should be a revelation of true feelings, but it is also necessary to stop. If the etiquette is various, it will be too busy to become a burden. It will be hypocritical.

Generally speaking, politeness can create a harmonious and relaxed atmosphere.

3. enthusiasm for initiative

If you go to a new environment and meet a warm and hospitable person, you will feel warm and relaxed.

Then this person becomes your trusted friend.

It shows that the importance of active enthusiasm in social interaction.

Enthusiasm for others can be expressed in many ways.

For example, be close to those who have been left out, encourage them to restore their self-confidence; when they meet a colleague or friend in difficulties, take the initiative to give spiritual or material help, and pour a cup of water enthusiastically for the guests.

However, enthusiasm for initiative also has a "degree" problem.

Too much courtesy can make people feel false or cause misunderstanding.

The best case is that both the active party and the passive side feel natural and comfortable without any reluctance.

4., pay attention to reputation.

What is credibility?

First, we must abide by the contract, that is, "saying what we believe and doing what we want".

No matter whether you date or cooperate with others, or if you promise others, you must abide by it.

You can't go back on your own words. If you have a special reason to decide that you can't perform the contract, you should give it a notice first.

Two, we are responsible for our own words.

In a non joking occasion, as long as the other side is talking to you seriously, you must strive for words and grounds, use words accurately and seek truth from facts.

The ancients say: no one can stand without faith.

Enter a modern civilized society, if an enterprise fails to have credibility, its business will go down. Once a person loses his credibility, he will not be able to get anywhere in society.

Although the consequences of social credibility are not as obvious as those mentioned above, the impact on a person's image and his career is also potential and far-reaching.

Without credibility, there can be no real friends.

5. observe time

In dealing with others, we must establish a strict sense of time and meet, talk and act in advance.

With the rapid development of science and the explosion of knowledge, time is life.

Especially for celebrities, leaders, lawyers, doctors and scientists, if you can break into the door and take a few hours, it will be hard for them to interfere with their normal work and life.

Then you become an unpopular person.

If there is anything, make a prior appointment to visit in the appointed time.