How To Deal With Unwelcome Guests

　　 The most common and unpopular. Guest It's the boring guest. There's nothing to worry about, but I'm wasting my time. It is a very troublesome thing for a host to be afraid of showing off his impatience.

There was a custom in the old officialdom, where the guests met, and the servants offered tea. When the host thought that the matter was over, he served a cup and served tea. There was a meaning of "giving a visitor", and both sides understood it. The time to receive visitors can be completely controlled by the host without making the guests feel hurt.

The etiquette of westerners is not so complicated. Office When people came to talk about official business, after the guests had not left, the owner could directly say "sorry" and then stood up, reaching out for a good bye, very frank and natural. It's just that this way is rather stiff for Chinese people, especially for those who do not come to talk about business or are familiar with them.

In our country, because of the traditional habits and the lack of means of communication, "uninvited guests" often fall from the sky. It is also a must to rush to visit without making a prior appointment. If he is busy and has no time to socialize, he can adopt a passive way of speaking: he hardly reacts to his words, or directly apologized, indicating that he is really busy and will talk again some other day. As long as a reasonable person is clear, he will leave immediately.

Some of the guests talked and talked about themselves, but did not notice the owner's expression, reaction, or even wrist movements. For such a slow person, you can imply family members or friends and colleagues to clear up and urge you to do something.

Another way is also very clever. A guest who does not want to see the door knocks in. If he does not ask him to sit down and talk for a few minutes, visitors will naturally feel bored and will soon take the initiative to leave.

　　 Urge customers The way of departure should be decided according to the specific circumstances. Remember that time should be governed by this principle. The attitude of "giving visitors" should be resolute and clear. But at the same time, the expression must be sincere and friendly, not impatient.